The FAQs are intended to be psycho-educational to help couples to process the trauma of betrayal. The aftermath of an affair is traumatic, painful, chaotic and confusing for couples. It is a difficult period for both the betrayed and betrayer. Some will end their relationship, others will start a new stage of radical honesty to rebuild trust. The decision is nothing but simple with all the mixed feelings and intense emotions. Schedule a session here for professional help to get clarity and guidance for both to heal whether stay together or apart.
FAQs and Response with The Gottman Institute
A collection of FAQs and responses by The Gottman Institute to process the trauma of betrayal and rebuilding trust in relationship.
FAQs and Response with Peggy Vaughan
A collection of FAQs and responses by Peggy Vaughan, author of “The Monogamy Myth”, using her own personal experiences after working through the discovery of her husband’s 7- year affairs.
These 151 questions cover the following topics:
Suspicion, Confronting, Personally Recovering, Discovering Affair after Spouse’s Death, Resources: Books and Seminars, Definition & other Facts about Affairs, Emotional Affairs, Internet Affairs, Workplace Affairs, Why Affairs Happen, Sexual Addiction?, Preventing Affairs.
These 151 questions cover the following topics:
Separating?, Marriage/Divorce?, Therapists, Rebuilding the Marriage, Men & Women have Same Issues, When the Affair Happened Long Ago, Long-marrieds Dealing with Affair, Talking & Getting Answers, Trust and Forgiveness, Sexual Issues, Preventing a Recurrence.
Involved in or Affected by Affairs
These 151 questions cover the following topics:
Married and Having an Affair, “Alternative” Marriages, The Single Third Party, Spouse Dealing with the Third Party, When there’s a Child from the Affair, Impact on children from parent’s affair, Dealing with Family Members, Dealing with Friends, Concerns about “Other People”.